PLAY IF YOU DARE!!!!
The game is not tied to my self-esteem. You should try it sometime with that mindset. It is liberating!
I play for fun and to meet people...I can get you sometimes, but it's just a game. If you ask me, I can let you win. No problem.
I welcome all challengers...even socially awkward people! However they usually cancel for unknown, but very profound reasons, I'm sure.