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![]() Be respectful to each other. Rule #2 Treat someone else as you would have them treat you. Rule #3 When in doubt see rules 1 & 2 |
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![]() This is early on and this club will find it's legs and tolerance level and I'll get more use to this seat but I want to keep it comfortable for both ends of the spectrum. From now on I will ask the poster (privately) to re-evaluate any questionable posts and give them the opportunity to defend it or delete it. We should be able to police ourselves with minimal to no interference. |
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![]() - Abraham Lincoln, First Inaugural Address, March 4, 1861 |
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![]() B - "I don't agree with your idiotic opinion about that." A - "Your point of view is hard for me to understand." B - "Your distorted point of view is hard for me to understand." Which way would you like to be talked to, 'A' or 'B'? The answer is 'A'. |
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![]() LS has been a member of several other clubs for a long time. During those long times, he has made several good and worthy contributions to many discussions. However, he has made several unwarranted and unworthy attacks on individuals who were members of those clubs and are now members of this club. LS has the opportunity of his free speech in those clubs. While often times making useful educational, pertinent, and interesting scientific, historical, or personal posts, LS has a history of inciting extreme hostility, acrimony, and rancor among participants. He has had a tendency, on more than one occasion, to take information out of context, misinterpret posts, misapply historical truths, and simply portray people inappropriately. Ls has the habit of creating descriptions of events and statements, as he interprets them, by using inappropriate language which convey vile, explicit, visions of sexual phantasies. He is most likely to do this when posting about politics, especially about Republicans, conservatives, and their topics. Those posts are usually the most unfair, untruthful, and most likely break the rules of societal norms. We feel this type of posting is not needed in NG. |
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![]() It was an experiment with a possible, very positive outcome. Unfortunately it didn't work out IMHO. |
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softaire 14-Apr-25, 06:45 |
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![]() ................................................ There has been an increasing number of negative posts between some members in this club going on for quite a while. Despite requests and then warnings by Thumper and myself, these posts continue to contain insults, name-calling, and condescensions rather than valid and useful conversation of topics with an open, accepting and interested attitude. It has gotten so bad that we had an incident where someone deemed it his duty to demand that others remove their post(s) when he doesn't like or agree with the post. He then threatened to report the post if his demanded deletion was not carried out in his mandated time frame. Not only was this threatened "reporting action" carried out, the person reported the item twice... simply to ensure that it was received and not lost in the mail, I guess. The purpose of this post is to announce once again that it is for Thumper and I to decide if a post(s) should be removed or not. If you think a post deserves removal, the procedure is to ask us via PM, if possible. We prefer that these things be kept as "low profile" as reasonably possible. The procedure is NOT to DEMAND that the writer of an offending post remove/delete his own post, within a specified time frame as demanded, or some retaliation action will happen. It is NOT any member's right to threaten others with punishment if they do not comply with stated demands. These are things that could be discussed civilly, if we have civil members. The other purpose of this post is also to announce that patience is running low. Everyone knows that we should all participate as adults, in a civil way, with manners. Remember... you are NOT required to reply to a post you don't like. Neither Thumper or I want to remove participants from the club. However, threats and demands will not be tolerated and removal becomes a possibility. Deletion of posts is our responsibility. |
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![]() victoriasas has been removed from the club. You may take up your concerns with Thumper. |